Checking on infidelity

Someone posted a search for “infidelity” recently on my site, and I thought it deserved some of my time to probe further.

I did a search on the Internet for “celebrity infidelity,” and the results show a list of spouse cheaters. Take the case of Ethane Hawk who commented about infidelity, “Sexual fidelity can’t be the whole thing you hang your relationship on,” according to this Daily MailOnline article. I could save records of these celebrities (or their spouse) having extramarital affairs or infidelity easily and quickly to the FEON+ software.

“I know the answers right away. My PON and UCMHP trainers told me it had a lot to do with the 2-7-9 (or 7-2-9) and 4-8-3 (or 8-4-3) patterns. For example, a female with such a pattern could likely be a confirmed Mistress,” I could sense some of you saying that confidently.

There might be some truth but not entirely true to assume that the 2-7-9 or 4-8-3 is an extramarital number. Frankly, how many of you have profiled charts with the 2-7-9 or 7-2-9 patterns and confirmed majority of the cases where the person is deemed a confirmed Mistress (if the person is a female) or a toy boy (if the person is a male)? And a person with 4-8-3 (or 8-4-3) would eventually be a divorcee?

Let’s be logical and rational, and be less naïve and assumed what’s been taught or shown by your mentors are always correct. They might have done their research and concluded their findings, but we cannot confidently conclude, in positive affirmative like a lawyer’s oath in court, that everything they said or shared with you “shall be the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth…” You still have to do your homework, and fine-tune your observations along the way. What’s been provided to you (by your trainers) is just general guidelines of the patterns that might exist in many of the case studies. Even so, that doesn’t warrant a 100% confirmed endorsement of some sort that the person is or would be a divorcee, engaged in extramarital affairs, or a definite bankruptcy.

If your perspectives in life, your attitude towards work, and your cravings for food, and desire to grow your financial wealth today is different than some years back, then it means you have changed your outlook, and possibly, your health and life purpose. And since you have changed your life, for good or bad, it means other people could change their behaviour and habits too. Furthermore, your family upbringing, living environment, and formative years could have inculcated certain moral and social values, beliefs, and habits in you. You are not flawless, and your charts are not perfect too, and that’s normal. So don’t stereotype others quickly without checking out the facts, just as much as you hope others would not hastily stereotype you when they profile your birth date. That is why I’ve consistently cautioned to my FEN (Five Elements Numerology) students that patterns provided are just an indication, a likelihood that the person might display or inhibit certain traits if they don’t change; and if they do take charge and made a positive change, then such negative patterns would have little influences on them. What this means is that when profiling someone with “negative patterns” you must regularly encourage them to adapt and change, give them the hope they deserved, and guide them to experience the favourable outcomes.

Look at Ethan’s EON chart. Sure, there was signs of a separation court case in 2003 before the official divorce in 2004. However, there aren’t any obvious patterns suggesting signs of strong sexual desire, extramarital affairs, transgressions, flirtatious or illicit behaviours, and other trysting traits.

It took me a while to identify the probable signs, after looking at various celebrities reported to have infidelity or extramarital affairs while they’re still married to their spouse. The 2-7-9, 7-2-9, 4-8-3, and 8-4-3 patterns might be related in some ways, but to me, could be an afterthought action than the ‘internal instigating’ factor. From another angle, when a chart has many number 3s, there are tendency signs suggesting high sexual desire. The person might be tempted to indulge in sexual explorations, either with their spouse, or someone else, or even alone. Could this lead to some form of extramarital affairs or regular visits to prostitutes for ‘sex-tisfaction?

I don’t have all the answers for now, but one thing’s for sure – the number 3 is connected in many ways to infidelity. However, from a fresh angle, it is not the only number. When I explored further, I realised that there is another pattern present (fully or partially) in the charts that I’ve analysed. Though the findings are inconclusive but present in most of the case study charts at the moment, I was glad I could save the birth dates into the FEON+ software, and did a “cause-and-effect” analysis to narrow down the possible signs. And the signs are pointing to a few aspects, including the husband, wife, boyfriend, or girlfriend elements. I will continue to do more research to validate my observations.

While waiting for more EXTRA clues and patterns, use this observation for now – when you see a chart with too many number 3s closely linked, you can conclude that there are signs of strong sexual desire; and these could lead to infidelity, transgressions, extramarital, or illicit affairs; or indulging in unhealthy sexual pursuits.

Regards, WZ Sun